Creating A Parenting Agreement That Works: A Guide For Co-Parents
Always Put the Children First
The primary focus of any parenting agreement should be the best interests of the children. Both parents should prioritize the emotional, physical, and psychological well-being of their children throughout the decision-making process. It can be difficult to maintain focus on children during a divorce, but once your romantic relationship is over, you still have to maintain a familial relationship.
Communication and Flexibility
Open and effective communication is key to successful co-parenting. Establish guidelines for regular communication between parents, such as weekly check-ins or shared online calendars. Additionally, flexibility is important to accommodate changes in schedules or unexpected circumstances that may arise. Although, at HAWM Law, our family law attorney ensures that your rights and wishes are prioritized. You know your family and your children best.
Parenting Time and Schedules
Clearly define the parenting time schedule, including weekdays, weekends, holidays, and school breaks. Be specific about pick-up and drop-off times and locations. Consider the child’s age, activities, and special events when determining the schedule, and be willing to adjust it as the child’s needs change.
As your children grow older, parenting time will look different. For example, once they reach the age of 16, the child can drive themselves between your house and your former spouse’s house. However, issues also get more complicated as your children age.